It doesn't hurt to try. My name is Rachel. I am 36 years old. I live in Northern New Jersey. Is there not a single guy out there who does not want children???? I recently started talking to a great guy; but low and behold...he wants children and he said that would be a major big deal if we ever got together. So I had to drop him before I ended up getting hurt. It is so hard living in a society where the main focus seems to be on family that includes children. If anyone wants some live journal friends please feel free to add me.